Tuesday, March 24

A reading from Matthew 18

THE LOST SHEEP

“What do you think? If a shepherd has a hundred sheep, and one of them has gone astray, does he not leave the ninety-nine on the mountains and go in search of the one that went astray? And if he finds it, truly I tell you, he rejoices over it more than over the ninety-nine that never went astray. So it is not the will of your Father in heaven that one of these little ones should be lost.”

What a simple concept — everyone is important! I live this every day working with students with special needs. But I’ve also had the pleasure of seeing my daughter apply this concept in her own life.

It’s easy to recognize different people as unique beings. It’s much less easy to recognize that each individual person has something to offer all of us.

As early as kindergarten, my daughter was asked to help other students in her class. As time went on, she didn’t have to be asked; but more importantly, she began including students who weren’t included by others — those who were physically, socially or academically different than others.

Her inclusion of differently abled people continued to evolve to the point that several years ago she began to volunteer at the summer school where I teach students with developmental disabilities. The volunteer time helped to develop her desire to work on staff when she gets older. The class in which she usually volunteered had students with more challenging behaviors. I got to see her sharing her nonstop smile with students who have behaviors many others shy from.

Her relationships with these children didn’t stop when summer was over. As a participant in her school’s Circle of Friends, she gets to mentor students with special needs. This mentoring includes helping these students understand hidden social agendas so that they can participate in regular education classes, like PE, and social activities, like skating parties.

These children have become her friends. I’ve gotten to see how she lights up when she sees these friends and runs to greet them across the basketball arena, at the gym or at a store. She remembers names and favorite activities and is always enthusiastic in greeting them. These children know that they have a friend.

Everyone is important. My daughter’s life is more complete because she has gotten to know some special children who make a difference in her life and because she continues to look for opportunities to include these children with developmental disabilities. My life is more complete because I get to see the great things my daughter does.

Dear Lord, thank you for including everyone in your love. Please help us continue to find the opportunities to share your love with ALL others. Amen

Karen Vlamis


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