Wednesday, March 11

A reading from Matthew 21

THE TWO SONS

“What do you think? A man had two sons; he went to the first and said, ‘Son, go and work in the vineyard today.’ He answered, ‘I will not;’ but later he changed his mind and went. The father went to the second and said the same; and he answered, ‘I go, sir;’ but he did not go. Which of the two did the will of his father?” They said, “The first.” Jesus said to them, “Truly I tell you, the tax collectors and the prostitutes are going into the kingdom of God ahead of you. For John came to you in the way of righteousness and you did not believe him, but the tax collectors and the prostitutes believed him; and even after you saw it, you did not change your minds and believe him.”

My grandma’s feet are legendary. She suffered from foot problems for years after a lifetime wearing high heels. Frequently, my mom would share stories of helping grandma wash her feet and trim the toenails she had left. Clipping her nails was beyond my grandma’s ability. Because she lived alone, it was a chore that rarely was done.

Although I knew her feet were a source of pain and discomfort, the stories grossed me out! The last thing I wanted to imagine was the gnarled toes of my octogenarian grandma’s feet. My mom explained that is what we do for people we love, and I denied her. Getting up close and personal to what could best be described as “claws” was not anything I was going to volunteer for ― ever. Not only was I adamant about never clipping anyone else’s toenails, I teased my mom mercilessly for having done it for someone else.

Over Christmas one year, I had the opportunity to spend some time alone in another city with my grandma. She was sitting on the couch, straining to change her socks. I sneaked a peek at her feet (fully aware of their reputation) and it caught me off guard. They did look terrible ― and painful! I asked grandma how her feet were feeling, and she said they were giving her some problems as usual. I hesitatingly asked if she would like me to help soak her feet and trim her nails. She lit up like a Christmas tree! “Oh, would you?” she exclaimed, literally clapping her hands together.

For the next hour, I trimmed and soaked and massaged and lotioned up my grandma’s tootsies. She relished the experience and, after my initial trepidation, I actually enjoyed helping her feel better. It was probably the most personal time I have ever spent with my grandma, and I’m so glad now for the opportunity to do something for her that she appreciated so much.

Dear God, walk with us as we do good works with the help of the Holy Spirit. Help us to submit to your teachings in both word and actions. Amen

Jennifer Worrel


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