Wednesday of Holy Week

March 19, 2008

ABIDE WITH ME 

Abide with me, fast falls the eventide.
The darkness deepens; Lord, with me abide.
When other helpers fail and comforts flee,
help of the helpless, oh, abide with me.

 I need thy presence ev’ry passing hour;
what but thy grace can foil the tempter’s pow’r?
Who like thyself my guide and stay can be?
Through cloud and sunshine, oh, abide with me.

Swift to its close ebbs out life’s little day;
earth’s joys grow dim, its glories pass away;
change and decay in all around I see;
O thou who changest not, abide with me.

I fear no foe, with thee at hand to bless;
ills have no weight, and tears no bitterness.
Where is death’s sting? Where, grave, thy victory?
I triumph still, if thou abide with me!

Hold thou thy cross before my closing eyes,
shine through the gloom, and point me to the skies;
heav’n’s morning breaks, and earth’s vain shadows flee;
in life, in death, O Lord, abide with me.

Text: Henry F. Lyte, 1793-1847

It’s a tradition in my family to sing to children after bedtime prayers to help them settle down for sleep. I can’t remember not knowing the first, second and fifth verses of “Abide with Me,” which Mom included in the bedtime songfest at least twice a week.

Even when I was really young, the notion of where one day fits with respect to forever took root. And it continues to grow. The best days and the rottenest days of my young life were all small. When I’d look at the good days, with games, trees to climb, creeks to explore, they were just small tastes of what was still coming. When I’d look at the bad days, they became more like bumps in the road, and not all that tough.

The constant prayer in this song is that Jesus stay close. A good or a bad day is still truly and honestly good or bad, but whether it’s good or bad is not so important when Jesus abides with me. The hymn has helped me pay attention to how God is always near and how his hand is at work.

It’s also good to know that God isn’t changing. I’m changing. The world around me is changing. And the way in which I see and understand the world is changing. Day turns to night, time passes by, and things are different. But God was, is and will be the same. God is right there next to me. He shines through any gloom and points me to the skies.

Jesus, thank you for coming to us and staying with us. Please help us remember that you’re always with us, keeping us your own.

Tim Meyer


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